After a person has a busy train station, see a display of people with disabilities legs pencil stand, he dropped a casual 100 yuan, as a charity. But go soon, this person has returned, he's sorry this disabled people, said: "I am sorry, you are a businessman, I was to you as a beggar." After a period of time, he again after Train Station, A store owner at the gate Hanzhu he smiled, "I always look forward to the emergence of you," said that disabled people, "You are the first to look at me as a businessman, you can see, I am now a real business The people. "
How do you see a person, that person may be a result of which you have changed, you can see he is valuable, he is valuable. A respect and love, often produce unexpected good fruit, friends, may wish to carefully look at the intentions of the world to respect each individual and their own, you will find, themselves and the people around them have a lot of potential.
2, a teacher into the classroom, on the board at a black spots.
He asked the students in her class, said: "This is what? "
We all spoke with one voice said: "A black spots."
Guzuo surprised the teacher said: "There is only one black spots?? Such a big whiteboard we have not seen ?"
You see is what ? Each person has some shortcomings, but you see those? ? If only to see someone else's black spots; neglected he has a large whiteboard (merits) ? In fact, everyone will have a lot of advantages, from a point of view! You will have more new discoveries.
3 ina chat with two women, one asked: "Are you alright son also? "
"Never mind, is really unfortunate!" The woman sighed: "He is pathetic enough, married a daughter-in-law of the terrible lazy, not cooking, not sweeping, washing clothes, not children, is to sleep all day, my son To end her breakfast in bed? "
"That daughter is? "
"That she may Haoming has." Woman face smile: "He married a good husband, not his doing housework, all by the President Yishoubaoban, cooking, laundry, sweeping, children, and each Early-morning also to the bed to her Chine! "
The same situation, but when we From my point of view, it will have a different mentality. Others stand in the position to see or think about a change in perspective, not like a lot of things, you can have greater tolerance, there will be more love.
4 inthe 17th century, Denmark and Sweden, the outbreak of war, a fierce battle down, Denmark fought victory, a Danish soldier to sit down and is preparing to remove the pot of water quench their thirst, Xiang suddenly heard the voice of sorrow, not in the original A distant lying injured by the Swedes, are eyes watching his kettle.
"You need than I was." Danish soldiers walk past, will be sent to the victim's mouth water bottles, but Sweden has extended his long dirty Cixiang Fortunately, a partial one, the only injury to his arm.
"Hey! You even so I return." Danish soldiers said: "I had to give you the whole pot of water to drink, now can only give you a half."
This matter was later King know, especially summoned the Danish soldiers, asked him why not kill that ungrateful guy ? He easily answered: "I do not want to kill the injured people."
This story see the human face, in others ungrateful, there are still forgive the heart, this is the second time to forgive, but also a great character even more.
